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Take that day, but don't give up!

We all know those times where you are so down you just can't get up again and everything else seems to be going wrong also and that makes you get even more down...it happens I get it. And I get when that happens it feels like giving up is the only option. Now I don't mean suicide, when I say give up I mean just stop fighting to achieve whatever it is or to just not care. But giving up is not the only option. I read the best thing the other day on facebook, this person said 'Giving up may seem like the best way to go but it's not. If you have to give up, give up today. Sit down, binge watch Hulu or Netflix and gorge yourself on junk food. Start over tomorrow and try again.' That! That statement hit me hard and it reminded of something I once read on pinterest that said 'Sometimes it's okay if the only thing you did today was just breathe.' I get it. Anxiety and depression are terrible things and everyday you are struggling against it. I get it! Sometimes it's okay to just take a personal day. Binge watch that show you love while you eat ice cream, it's fine. If that's what it takes for you to continue going after your dreams then do it. Taking a break is perfectly okay and don't et anyone else tell you any different.

Take that day, but don't give up. Fight for your dream, even if it takes you longer than it takes others. Go after what you want, even if people think you can't make it. Shoot for the moon! Don't give up. Fight.  I get that it's exhausting but achieving that dream is so worth it. Before you give up, think of why you held on for so long. There is a reason you held on this long, don't give that reason up, don't give your dream up. So yes, if you must give up then just take that break and continue going and fighting tomorrow. Sometimes we can be fighting so hard for something that we become so overwhelmed that we can't think or see signs clearly. Sometimes that day to relax and not think about it will help you see things clearer. Sometimes our perspective just needs a little adjusting and that can be done by simply taking a break and reevaluating later on. 
So don't feel bad about taking a break but don't give up!! 

IF you ever feel like giving up shoot me an email! I am always here! 
Email: veronicascinderellastory@gmail.com

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